Universal Principles For Successful Dog Training
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- You're about to take him back to the shelter, just because he's timid? He would have been acting timid in the shelter to, so if you didn't want a timid dog, why did you adopt one?
If he's not afraid of other dogs, he just has a low self-esteem around humans, or he was once abused by somebody. If he is not afraid of other dogs, but is aggressive towards them, you're wrong. He IS afraid of them, but he's covering it up with a big show.
You don't want to toughen him up, you want to increase his self-confidence. The best way to do this is to be his pack leader - the one person he can count on to keep him safe no matter what the situation is. If you are constantly in a calm-assertive state of mind, he will gravitate towards you.
The wrong way to fix the timidity is to coddle him. If you nurture the dog while his mind is anxious or fearful, you are saying "it's okay to be afraid." What you want to do is be calm and assertive and not give him any attention until he has calmed down and relaxed (open mouth, relaxed breathing, ears not pinned, spine relaxed) and then give him attention and tell him what a good boy he is. - It's "toughen".... not "tuffin".
You adopted a dog, it's your responsibility to care for that dog - it is not an object to be disposed of just because you don't like it's personality or because it isn't tough enough for you. Buck up and commit to working with this dog - use google to find kennel club accredited trainers that can help you build this dog's confidence (hint: it won't be quick and easy, it WILL take time).
Though in hindsight maybe the dog is better off back where it came from if you're not going to commit to proper, responsible pet ownership. Keep in mind that some dogs are just timid by nature - poor genes, poor upbringing, etc etc. - You want to *toughen* him up? The last thing that you want to do for that is return him to the shelter. Either make a commitment to a dog or don't get it. LOTS of dogs are like that right after coming from the shelter, they just need some time and a little bit of work. Or a lot of work in some cases. But the love you'll get in return is well worth the time you put into helping the dog come out of its shell.
Keep it quiet around your house for a while. Allow him time to adjust to his new surroundings. If this is impossible to do then this may not be the right home for him.
Please remember that it may take months before he turns around, and certain things he may never get over, but you're still doing a great thing by keeping him -- you're saving a life. - you have a fearful and stressed dog.
there is no magic way of making him not fearful.
you can help him feel more comfortable and less stressed.
not sure what you mean by 'toughen him up', but be careful. pushing him beyond what he's capable of coping with can lead to more problems with reactivity and fear.
he needs your help and understanding and a commitment to his well-being.
he may always be somewhat fearful and sensitive (genes play a big role and the first 16 weeks of life are critical to good development - neither of which you can change now).
this website may help:
http://fearfuldogs.com/
and this article is very enlightening:
http://www.downeastdognews.com/stories/2…
best wishes. - Take him back if you want a tough dog, he will never be a tough dog. You dont deserve your dog if your just going to throw him away if he isnt perfect. Their are confidence building exercises you can do, but seriously give the dog to a better home.