I'm 13, and I have wanted a dog since I was tiny. But recently I've got much more serious about it, and I want it SO badly, but I now understand that a dog is a big commitment and I need to be responsible about it.
I've done a lot of research into dog training, breeds and care, so I really know my stuff. But I know it's very different to read about something than experience it, I just thought being knowledgeable would help.
My mum and dad are still saying no, and it makes me so upset because I feel I can handle a dog and I know I'd look after it. A dog would mean 2 much 2 me and i would never neglect it.
Please tell me if you think I really could handle a puppy (if not, how can I change) and if you do believe me, how can I convince my parents?
Thank you!! :D
from Beccy xx
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Recommended Answer:puppys take a lot of work, and alot of knowlege in training one. Your only 13 right now and soon enough you will be busy with your friends and social life that your not going to have time to take care of it. I would really reconsider until all of your family is on board with having one, because it's alot harder then it looks!
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- If your parents say no than there must be a reason that they dont want u to get one. Have you asked them why you couldnt get one
- You seem mature and responsible, but are you sure that you won't just become bored with a dog after a couple of months? You're right: it is alot of work. You have to feed and water a dog twice a day, clean it's cage or let it out frequently, give it plenty of TLC, and have a way to pay for it's vet bills.
Another idea for you might be to see if your parents would let you take on a smaller animal, such as a fish or a hamster, to prove that you have responsibility. That might seem childish, but it is a step closer to getting a dog!
Communication=trust ... Talk to your parents and let them know how much getting a dog would mean to you. If you like the hamster idea, bring that up too and see what they have to say.
Good Luck and God Bless
- I'm about your age, (can't say exactly or I'll get in trouble) and I had that EXACT same problem. my mom said no for years, then the one thing that worked was when i raised the money all on my own. I also promised to take complete care of it and she let me get one. I think you are ready! Just keep trying and never give up!!!!!!
- well i really hope you know that having one is a big responsibility! you need to feed it, bathe it, walk it, play with it, train it, etc.
it can be alot of work, and im not sure if you would have the time, since you will be in school 5 days a week. who will take care of him in the mean time. if you get a dog, from a shelter, that is already potty trained, etc.. then yes it will probably be easier on you, but you have to make sure u give it lots of love! im not sure how to convince your parents, alls i know, is when i wanted my first pup, i just begged my parents, until one day we went and looked at some pups, and i got one. good luck.
- My hubby and I have four dogs... while I'm sure you would be able to handle remembering to feed a dog and walk it, what you're forgetting is that dogs are expensive to own. Even if you got a free mutt from an animal shelter, vet bills can be very costly.
If your dog gets hurt or sick, you need to take it to a vet in addition to taking it for regular check-ups and stuff.
So maybe if you got a part time job to pay for this stuff, your parents would be more willing to reconsider.
Also, puppies will piss and poop all over your parents' house until it is house-trained.
Dogs can cause property damage, they chew and dig and get into everything they shouldn't!
That said, I couldn't imagine life without dogs, I love them so much! But you may have to wait until you move out if your parents are dead set against it.
They might be more willing to consider a cat....
- Well, I myself have two dogs owned by my family: a Saint Bernard and a mutt. However, we have 10 acres, which is more than enough room for them to run around. If you live in an apartment in the city, then I would say that you should have a cat or a very small dog- a Saint Bernard would not work! If you live in the suburbs, sure! There is probably enough room to give it daily walks, right? I would suggest small dogs, lap dogs, like a poodle or a pug. Talk to your parents about it, and present the reasons why you should have a dog: it would teach you more responsibility, it would provide you with another friend, and if you get a small dog from the pound, you would be saving its life! Make sure you tell them that you will take care of it. If worse comes to worst, you can show them this!
- YES! when i got my dog at about 12.. i did some research to make sure i was geting the correct dog. Now my dog is smaller then other dogs. Maybe talk to your parents about a smaller no shedding dog. I have a King Charles Cavalier Bichon Frise. He is the best dog a person can ask for! he is the BEST with kids, hardly ever barks, was VERRY easy to trane! i could go on forever
http://www.pets4you.com/pages/images/cav…
that a picture like him i found on the internet
email if u have any Q's or other great dogs that do shed like a LAB great dogs!
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- Beccy- i think you should start off with a small animal like a mouse and see that a small mouse takes a lot of work. I also agree that you are at the age where you want to hang out with your friends and will not have time for a dog because pets do it old and boring at times... also, most likely do not have a job to pay for the vet visits, food and toys for a dog. In time you should be ready for a dog.
- hey there beccy!!
im 13 and i had the exact promlem. i had never had a dog before so i begged and begged my parents! they kept saying nonono! i finally disided............i will show them! im going to show them i can be responsable! so i did! i did extra chores and started a puppy fund so all the money i got i would put in there to go towards the purchuse of the puppy. then after a few weeks of doing constant chores i sat down and said mom dad i think im responsable enough to take on a responsability! maybe a dog? see what they say. dont say I PROMISE I WILL TAKE CARE OF IT I WILL FEED IT EVERYDAY ETC. cuz they think that you are just saying that to convince them. see what they say. if they say no continue showing you are responsable. i think you are ready to take on such a responsability! so good luck,do your reserch on the dog you want to get and save save save!
- You sound very mature but, I would volunteer at the Humane Society for awhile and get some first-hand experience and it might be a way to prove yourself to your parents. However not all people are doggy, and you just might have to accept the fact that your parents just don't want to fool with a dog, my father was that way! Good luck to you!!!
- Hey, I'm 12 my, parents said no, (at first), my parents then supprised me on xmas, and we're doing great! I wanted a dog since I was tiny also, but here is how I convinced my parents:
Start volunteering to take care of dogs, in other words show them that you can be responsible for a dog!
Best of luck!!
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